Salary comes up at three points in a hiring process: the recruiter call, the final interviews, and after the offer. What you say at each point is different, and most of the money is decided at the last one. This guide covers how to research a number, what to say when you're asked for your expectations, how to counter an offer, and the exact words to use. The legal points about salary questions were checked against official state sources in October 2026.
When salary comes up
| Stage | What they ask | Your goal |
|---|---|---|
| Recruiter or phone screen | "What are your salary expectations?" | Stay in the process without locking in a low number |
| Final interviews | "Is the range we discussed still okay?" | Confirm you're aligned and keep room to negotiate |
| After the offer | "Here's our offer. What do you think?" | Negotiate the total package |
The real negotiation happens after the offer. By then the company has decided it wants you, which is when you have the most leverage. Early on, the goal is only to avoid anchoring yourself too low.
Do your research first
You can't negotiate well without a number you can defend. Collect it from more than one source:
- The posted pay range. Many job postings now include one. In California, an employer with 15 or more employees must include the pay scale in job postings, and any employer must give an applicant the pay scale for the position on reasonable request. Colorado also requires pay ranges in postings for jobs covered by its law.
- The U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics Occupational Outlook Handbook, which lists median pay by occupation.
- Salary reports from people in the same role and city, and from recruiters.
- Your own numbers: what you need, what you earn now, and what would make you leave.
If you're thinking in hourly pay, our conversion guides such as $25 an hour is how much a year show the yearly figure for full-time hours.
Turn your research into a range. The bottom of your range should be a number you'd be happy to accept, because companies often offer near the bottom of whatever range you give.
How to answer "What are your salary expectations?"
Option 1: Ask for their range first
"I'm still learning about the role, so I'd like to understand the full scope first. Could you share the range budgeted for this position?"
Recruiters often share it. If you're applying in a state that requires pay ranges in postings, you can point to the posted range.
Option 2: Give a researched range
"Based on what I've seen for similar roles in this area and my experience with X, I'm looking for something in the range of $95,000 to $110,000 in base salary. I'm flexible depending on the full package."
Anchor the range a little above the number you actually want, and mention that you're looking at the whole package.
Option 3: Confirm their range works
If they've already told you the range: "That range works for me, and I'd expect to be toward the upper end given my experience with X. I'm happy to talk details once we both know it's a fit."
What not to say
- A single exact number this early. It becomes the ceiling.
- A number based on what you earn now if you're underpaid.
- "Whatever is fair." It hands the decision back to them.
- A number you'd be unhappy to accept.
What if they ask about your current salary?
Several U.S. states and cities restrict this question. In California, for example, employers can't ask for an applicant's salary history, either directly or through an agent, though you can choose to share it. Where the question is allowed, you can still redirect:
"I'd rather focus on the value I'd bring to this role. Based on my research, roles like this pay between $95,000 and $110,000, and that's the range I'm targeting."
How to negotiate after the offer
1. Thank them and ask for time
"Thank you, I'm excited about this. Could I have until Friday to review the full offer?" Asking for two or three days is normal. Ask for the offer in writing, including base salary, bonus, equity, benefits, and start date.
2. Decide what you'll ask for
Pick one main request and maybe one secondary one. Asking for ten things at once looks like you're not serious about the job.
3. Make the counter with a reason
On the phone or by email: "I'm excited to join and I'd like to make this work. Based on my research for this role and my experience leading X, I was expecting a base salary closer to $110,000. If you can get there, I'm ready to sign."
The reason matters more than the wording. Point to market data, a competing offer if you really have one, or a specific skill that the role needs.
4. Stop talking
After you state your number, wait. Let the recruiter respond. Filling the silence often leads people to talk themselves down.
5. If base salary can't move, negotiate the rest
Companies often have bands for base pay but more room elsewhere:
| What to ask for | Example |
|---|---|
| Signing bonus | "Could we close the gap with a one-time signing bonus?" |
| Earlier salary review | "Could we review compensation at six months instead of a year?" |
| Equity | More stock options or restricted stock units |
| Title or level | Sometimes the level decides the pay band |
| Time off | An extra week of paid time off |
| Remote days or start date | More flexibility on where or when you start |
| Education or equipment budget | Certifications, courses, a home office setup |
A counter offer email template
Subject: Offer for [Job Title]
Hi [Name],
Thank you again for the offer for the [Job Title] role. I'm excited about the team and the work on [project or product].
After reviewing the full package, I'd like to discuss the base salary. Based on market data for this role in [city] and my experience with [specific skill or result], I was hoping for a base of [$ amount]. If we can reach that number, I'm ready to accept.
I'm happy to talk by phone if that's easier.
Best, [Your name]
Keep it short and positive. One request, one reason, and a clear signal that you want the job.
When not to push
- The offer is already above your target and the market rate.
- The company has said clearly that the number is fixed, and you've already tried the other parts of the package.
- You'd accept the offer as it is and the relationship matters more to you than the extra amount.
Accepting graciously is fine. Negotiating politely almost never costs you an offer, but pushing after a clear final answer can sour the start.
Practice the conversation
Say your numbers out loud before the call. Most people can write a counter offer but go quiet or apologize when they have to say it. Rehearse the three answers above until they sound natural. Our guide to questions to ask a recruiter helps you get the salary range early, and the phone screen interview questions cover the rest of that first call. If you've received two offers and are deciding how to leave your current job, see resign vs quit.
Rehearse your salary conversation
YesToTheOffer transcribes what you say so you can hear where you hesitated, and suggests answers from your resume. 30 free minutes, no subscription.



